On living longer after loss than before it

An extraordinary guest piece by writer Helen Gilby

FNC - This world we're living in

Hello! You made it to Friday! Welcome to Friday Night Chats. It's great to have you here. Let's chat. Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your email! Skip to comments Happy Friday! How has your week been? We are

NZ Police don't know what to do about Grok child sexual abuse images...

What should you do if you or your child is a victim of a Grok deepfake? This question is simple, right? Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your email! Skip to comments It's something I've been asked multiple times

Grok, X/Twitter, and AI deepfakes: An explainer by an NZ expert

Around the world, every government is grappling with what to do with perverts using AI to create child sexual abuse material and pornography deep fakes. Grok is the most infamous chatbot to do this. Its owner, the deeply repugnant Elon Musk, is unconcerned by these violations across his site X

Keeping up with the Coalition

Ok, well - I did think because it's Monday, it would be cruel to send out a newsletter about everything garbage going on. So I started writing about why Heated Rivalry is so important, and then I was worried I'd get cancelled for daring to not

What the hell is going on between the Coalition Government and the Public Service Commission?

It's not normal for public servants and the Government to collude against unions like this.

FNC - Are you allowed to play that in your car?

Welcome to Friday Night Chats! I hope you had a very restful break. It's been a very bleak time for the world truly, but we're here, and we're here together, and that's what matters. It all feels weird, but we at least

Submission guide for January ❤️

We talked about how last year was The Year of Revolt - I'm hoping this year will be the Year of Being Horny on Main. But that seems less likely with every new day and we're only on day bloody six. I mean, we've

When is it OK to remove a dictator?

A friend asked me this morning if I was going to do an explainer on the United States bombing Venezuela overnight and kidnapping of their president Nicolás Maduro and his wife Cilia Flores. Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your email! Skip to

You WILL have a good 2026

My son has an endearing quality: he is incredibly literal. A long-running joke in our family is asking each other, 'How did you sleep?' and then closing our eyes and saying 'like this'. When we are in a rush, we sometimes say to each other, '

New Year's In Reads & Recs

I'm staying inside this New Year's due to exhaustion and the weather. I'll be hosting a bunch of tweens but other than that I plan on cozying up with a book. Maybe you're in the same boat? Here's my list

The Top 1 Listicle You'll Read This Year

Emily Writes Wrapped: The Top 10 EWW posts in 2025