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Despite it all...
My son has had a brilliant year. He wouldn't tell you this of course. But my husband and I have spent many evenings catching each other's eye over his angelic little face and smiling. We've come a long way and it's because
The Coalition Government kindy tapes
The biggest news from the last three weeks or so (ignoring the latest Gone in 60 Seconds Ceasefire between the US and Iran) is horrible: 50,000 more children are suffering from material hardship than three years ago. And the government is going to address that by... sacking 10,000
FNC - It's my party and I'll....
Welcome to Friday Night Chats. Tonight I am at the launch for season 3 of The Good Sex Project! I'll be reading a 'letter to my libido' so watch out! I hope you've had a great week. Let's chat! Feel free to
50 reasons The Definitions of Woman and Man Bill is wrong, unscientific, non-biological, misogynist, and just catastrophically stupid
The Legislation (Definitions of Woman and Man) Amendment Bill is a wrong, unscientific, non-biological, misogynist, catastrophically stupid, bigoted, unworkable, expensive solution to a non-existent problem. But that’s not all. Below are 50 reasons why the bill is horrible. It's not too late to stand against
Her name is Dina, and she was murdered
To kill a teacher as she leaves school is a horrific crime. And yet, you are unlikely to see anyone talking about Dina's murder. Here, we will always talk about the crimes ignored by the world's media. Here is Dina's story. Feel free to
Parents fined $30 a day for having unwell, dying, or disabled kids
Katie's son, 13, was running through school when he slipped over and hit his head. Hard. He was knocked unconscious and suffered a serious concussion and brain injury. For the last ten weeks, his parents have been run ragged as he has had appointment after appointment with ACC&
FNC - Thanks Pōneke 😤😐
Hello! Happy Friday Night Chats! We made it through the week. And as you read this, I'll be celebrating my birthday, and I might just be a margarita deep already. Let's chat! Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your
Is your child posing a real, catastrophic risk to society?
The headlines were frightening: "Social media compared to smoking" and "Report warns of 'wave of radicalised children'. Could it be true? Could we be facing a war with our ‘socially isolated and anxious’ children?! Are our children just waiting for us to fall asleep before
FNC - Boring budget is boring (so we're not talking about it)
Leaked! NZ First Members Bills you weren’t meant to see!
Gosh, what a week it’s been! And it’s only Wednesday! For the last ten days or so, coalition MPs have been obsessively talking about trans people to hide the fact that they’re accumulating massive wealth while you struggle to pay your rent or mortgage. ACT’s Parmjeet
A Submissions Guide For The Chaos Coalition's Horrific Legislative Blitzkrieg
Unfortunately, because of this government's ongoing commitment to attacking Aotearoa's most vulnerable people, we all have to spend our Monday making submissions against various awful bills they're pushing through under urgency. There's no time to spare, unfortunately - we have to get started
FNC - Let's meet up in the park to scream
We are so CRASHING OUT
Breaking: the Government is attacking disabled people and their carers. Again.
Late last night, the coalition government snuck through another bill attacking disabled adults, children, and their families. The bill, introduced without consultation or warning, paves the way for income testing and asset testing for disabled adults and children. It also narrows the ability of families to get support for their
"How are we allowing this?" - A former mayor gives evidence at the Mana Wāhine Inquiry
The Mana Wāhine Kaupapa Inquiry has just heard two weeks of evidence about the prejudice and discrimination wāhine Māori experience as a result of Crown breaches of Te Tiriti o Waitangi. Former Te Whanganui-a-Tara mayor Tory Whanau gave evidence last week. With permission, I am sharing her testimony
FNC - A hockey guy doesn't need to know about Kierkegaard
Let's get warm and snug and put on the podcast for Friday Night Chats!
A new generation of Elves?
How far is too far for our rangatahi? On Friday, rangatahi all over Aotearoa will walk out of school to protest the government's inaction toward climate change. For my son, just 13 years old, it will be his third school strike. Feel free to skip to the comments
A quiz: Who should I vote for?!
Unsure who you should vote for this year? I've got your back! Welcome to the Emily Writes Weekly Who Should You Vote For Quiz! Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your email! Skip to comments What best describes your family circumstances?
FNC - Release valve cry
Welcome to Friday Night Chats! It's Friday! You made it! We made it! Through the week at least...Let's chat. I'm so happy you're here. Feel free to skip to the comments if you read this already in your email! Skip to
What mothers really want for Mother's Day
On Sunday, it's Mother's Day. I've written quite a bit about the terrible things the Steves of the world market to us for Mother's Day. Usually, we do the Steve Awards for Excellence in Bad Mother's Day Marketing. But this
Government's treatment of women in Aotearoa goes to the United Nations
One year after legislation killed existing pay equity claims and basically ended the opportunity to bring new claims, the government is being taken to the United Nations. It's a huge deal. The team bringing the complaint to the UN includes Te Kāhui Tika Tangata Human Rights Commission and
Ask Emily - The Bad Advice Column
I don't know why but people often ask me for advice. I get DMs all the time asking what I'd do in situations I hope I'll never find myself in and people ask me for tips when I clearly have very little wisdom. But,
FNC - Happy May Day!
42 reasons why a social media ban for teens is a bad idea
Is this the greatest invasion of privacy in NZ history?